Burial (Dafn al‑Mayyit)
Dafn al‑Mayyit focuses on the burial process. Follow local laws and cemetery regulations, and coordinate with your masjid lead throughout. The steps below provide a clear structure for transport, gravesite setup, lowering, backfilling, and concluding supplications.
Before you depart
- Confirm paperwork, permits, and cemetery plot details.
- Coordinate transport from masjid to cemetery.
- Ensure shroud is secure; nothing exposed.
- Bring gloves, shovels (if permitted), and towels.
- Assign clear roles for lowering and safety spotters.
Always comply with cemetery staff directions. If a practice differs locally, follow the masjid lead and cemetery policy.
Transport and arrival
- Load gently; keep the head elevated if possible.
- Drive steadily; avoid abrupt stops.
- Park per staff instruction; keep access paths clear.
- Carry with dignity; head first, coordinated steps.
Cemetery coordination
- Meet staff; verify plot and orientation.
- Confirm who lowers, who spots, and who directs dua.
- Review any equipment: boards, straps, or lowering device.
- Ensure space is safe and attendees stand back.
Grave preparation checks
- Qibla orientation marked; body will face the Qibla.
- Depth/width per cemetery guidance; side niche (lahd) if allowed.
- Boards or supports ready to shield the body from direct soil if customary/required.
- Privacy and safety maintained; tools staged neatly.
Lowering and placement
- Position lowerers evenly; confirm hand grips/straps.
- Lower gently and steadily on the count of the lead.
- Place the body on its right side facing Qibla; support as needed.
- Untie head/foot knots if local practice permits.
- Recite appropriate supplications as guided by the imam.
Backfilling and dua
- Place boards or cover the niche if part of local practice.
- Backfill carefully; avoid stepping on the grave.
- Form a gentle mound; tidy edges for stability.
- Make dua for forgiveness and steadfastness (thabat) for the deceased.
- Pour water lightly over the grave if practiced locally and permitted.
After burial
- Place a simple marker per cemetery rules; avoid elaborate headstones if local guidance discourages.
- Offer condolences; encourage continued dua and sadaqah jariyah on behalf of the deceased.
- Ensure the area is clean; return tools and thank staff.
- Coordinate any paperwork closeout with cemetery office.
Notes on differences
- Some regions require a vault or liner—comply with legal requirements.
- Lahd (side niche) vs shaqq (central trench) varies by ground and policy; follow the masjid lead.
- Local customs for recitations at the graveside differ; prioritize authentic supplications and avoid crowding.